I had a professor at Memphis State, Dr. Wong, who turned out to be a good friend. When I switched major's from math to secondary education I had to take first year algebra as a requirement. As a math major for 2 years I had already taken 3 semesters of calculus and numerical analysis along with computer programming in both classes and several other things. But it was required. So there I was in a class with 30 girls who were going to be elementary school teachers and were also taking first year algebra as a requirement. I was going to make an easy "A" and be in a class with 30 girls.. How could that be bad? .. Then it got better! Dr. Wong handed out index cards and asked everybody to write down every math class we had ever taken starting with 9th grade math. Most everybody wrote one line "9th grade Math" … I filled out both sides of the card. As he was looking through the cards at his desk he stopped, looked up and said "Where is Mr. Oates?".. I raised my hand. Then he said "Why are you in this class?" .. I said "Secondary ed requirement." .. he nodded and continued looking through the cards while we watched. Then he quickly stood up and walked to the middle of the room pointed to his left and said "Everybody on this side of the room, if you have a problem, you ask me." Then pointed to the right.. "Everybody on this side of the room , if you have a problem, you ask Mr. Oates." .. I had just been made a full professor. I was team teaching first year algebra with Dr. Wong. Not only was I going to make an "A", but the girls were going to ask me to come to them .. it was great fun …. He later taught me Probability, not as much fun. The first 2 weeks I was all over it, I knew everything. Then it got hard. I understood it OK, but it never really clicked. When he started really talking about how it worked and why you would solve one problem one way and another differently he could get over my head really fast. I had to ask lots of questions and stay after class and ask more questions. We spent a lot of time together to get through that class. The good part was that I didn't really have to understand probability for Dr. Wong to be my friend.
God's like that. Just when you think you've got him all figured out he gets bigger, more complex. I used to think I knew everything I needed to know about God, I could answer any question you had. That was when I was young and had no sense. I've quit trying to understand God. I don't read the Bible for facts anymore, I read it to listen to God talk and hope that he will say something to me. Sometimes he does, sometimes he doesn't. The point is that sometimes he does. Prayer works, sometimes it's slow, sometimes overnight.… I get panic emails from people wanting me to pray for something. I wonder if they think God won't show up unless we call him up and tell him where he needs to be. I doubt he needs much direction from me. So why does prayer work? Why is it that there are times that God does what we ask? Because it gives us hope, and it gives us a relationship with God. We want God to be efficient at solving problems: "Here's what I need…thanks …see ya." God doesn't want to be efficient, he wants us to be in a relationship, one that is so close that we tell him our problems even if we don't expect him to fix them. Like a best friend that sits up with you all night talking on the phone, talking about all the things that make you happy, all the things that make you hurt, all the things that make you change. When I tell my wife PK things that make me hurt, I don't always expect her to fix it, but I do always expect her to care. Why is God different?
I think I can still do 9th grade math .. maybe?
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